Thursday, February 12, 2009

I did it....


I did it. I finally said something to her. That crazy girl who acts like my kid is the evil one.  As some of you know I have been doing the day care at my gym every thursday now for about 4 months. i enjoy it, some days are good some days are terrible but i live through it.  Anyway, the other girl who used to volunteer on thurs with me has a child that is mean to all the kids, he pushes, hits, steals there toys and throws his food on the ground stomping on it. I know your thinking...every kid does this.  Yes, your right but he is just beyond control, to the point where the lady who actually runs the day is so fed up.  Today, this child pushes aiden down in the face (no reason at all) and turns around within 1 minute does it to another baby who is a year old. But with the other baby he pushes him by the throat. Oh i was angered.  When girl comes in to get her kid I always keep aiden away from them because well...i dont want him around them.  So, they are fixing to walk out the door, i put aiden down and he starts walking around.  In 2 seconds the child turns around and pushes aiden down for no reason.
Then i said it....
"See this it was he does all the time" .....
Those words...
oh man....

So she looks up at me after just putting her child in her lap saying Time Out as he is hitting and kicking her, and says...are you mad at me?  Well, I will say that I held back much more than i planned because I wanted to show my good christian spirit.  I said well, you switched days because you say aiden is mean to your kid and really its your child that is doing all the pushing and hitting.  She comes back with well Aiden is always stealing his food. True. But every kid in there shares and follows the other kids around getting there food.  Not many other children do what her child does to every child. I can say 3 that I have seen including him that our just that mean for no reason.  Nothing big happened. A few more words were spoken and she left saying im sorry he hits your kid.  But not in a happy way.
It could have ended better I suppose, but at least things were said.  The owner of the gym was in there as well, and sort of agreed with what the day care leader and I were saying. This girls kid was uncontrollable. 

I have been wanting to say something to her for about a month now, but I have kept it in and kept praying over it.  I know it shouldnt have happened the way it did, but I cant take it back.  Now i know that next time I go to the gym, I will get stares and have a nice long conversation with the day care leader about what "the girl" had to say about what happened.  Even though the day care leader completely agrees with me ......"the girl" likes to talk.  ugh.  I know that God will help in the situation but Im just so frustrated with the issue.

I know everyone thinks their child is an angel and can do no wrong.  I know that kids are kids and these things happen.  I never thought I would get this defensive over my son.  Its truly unconditional love :)

1 comment:

  1. lol, I still love this... "That crazy girl that acts like my kid is the devil...". Thanks for the laugh... lol. I LOVE YOU NIKKI. (i'm fixin to wash my face and CALL YOU.. :).. ).

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